Break Through Your Challenges
Childhood sexual trauma, including one-time, multiple, or long-lasting repetitive events, affects everyone differently. However, in 20 years of working with survivors, I have noticed before accessing tools, strategies and help in some form or other, most seem to exhibit some level of complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD).
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Breaking through and eradicating dysfunction and problem issues via coaching, hypnosis while learning strategies, using techniques and tools have worked well for a myriad of survivors. We use a variety of multifaceted modalities to address various aspects you are dealing with. Get back your motivation and drive, build better self-esteem, confidence and shift your outlook toward creating a successful life.
Symptoms
Sexual trauma can cause many issues and symptoms that often times we are oblivious to, not just your behaviors, but in your relationships, your sex life, the way you treat yourself and even in your physical well being. Some of the long-terms symptoms of trauma, similar to or including PTSD. Any of these sound familiar?
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promiscuity
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fear or dislike of sex
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saying yes to sex you don't even want
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being a "pleaser' sexually
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secretly not knowing what you really like sexually
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suffering confusion around sexual identity
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dissociation during sex
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needing to escape into fantasy to enjoy sex
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having sexual fantasies where you are abused
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porn escalation
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foggy thinking
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restlessness
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memory loss around the trauma
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vigilance- more jumpy than normal
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emotional outbursts
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not liking certain places/situations/ smells without knowing why
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deep feeling of shame guilt
Healthy relationships tend to be very challenging
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trust issues
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fear of intimacy
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trouble setting boundaries and saying no
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fear of being alone
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easily stressed by relationships
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resentment and anger issues
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codependency
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emotional abuse
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attracting those with traits of narcissim or narcissistic personality
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always feeling like a victim
Sexual trauma as a child can affect the way you approach sex.
Symptoms continued
Being sexually abused as a child or adolscent can lead to physical symptoms as well, issues with body.
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obesity
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unexplained medical symptoms
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disconnected from body, high pain tolerance
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feeling dirty all the time like you can never get clean enough
The sexual trauma can lead to other psychological issues.
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depression
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anxiety and social anxiety
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sleep issues
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eating issues
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low self-esteem
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difficulty in holding jobs, sticking to something
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and more...
Build Confidence Now
Incremental steps toward freedom
Like so many other Cristian started his journey years ago with his first step. He purchased the "building confidence after sexual trauma" meditation mp3. He listened to the creative visualization meditation and reprogram his thinking to step out and do the coaching program. " I never looked back. I am so glad that I just had enough courage to purchase and listen. That small step was life changing."
