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Male Survivor Voices & Experiences

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Course & Coaching Program Experiences


"Thomas this coaching program is so rich. You can tell that your lifetime of working with survivors influenced it.  I've worked with a therapist prior.  When I started your course with the weekly coaching, strategies and the breadth or your neuroscience knowledge in helping to understand what's occurring in the brain as we face various challenges is so needed. I know she did what she could, but I felt a bit cheated with my therapist and wish I would have known about this program earlier.  I will be moving on the Managing and Manifest parts of this journey.  - Jimmy C.


" I just finished the first module, Acknowledge, it's August. I'm so glad for the break in between modules. It is so true that it's like years of insight, strategies, and unraveling in months instead of years.  This is coming from a person who thought he had already done tons of work, not like this. With Thomas coaching along the way and the ability to interact and ask questions, share insights, it's totally better for me than just talk therapy.  I'm moving with more confidence and establishing boundaries already.  - Elwon -


"As a high-functioning man, I didn't want to admit that the abuse really affected me.  Being an executive was my cover up to say I'm okay. No one would ever think I had abuse issues.  Yet it was so lonely.  "Thank you so much for your flexibility and traveling to my location for the intense sessions. Totally worth the investment.  Even my confidence, decision-making and strategic thinking have improved from working through issues.  Plus your ability to not let me talk BS helped. I'm indebted to you.   - Executive


"It's been 90 days. I now realize this is not just about the abuse per se, but all the dysfunction, bad habits and outlooks created.  I've been oblivious.  Today, during COVID downsize, I got a promotion.  I know for a fact it's due to the coaching and hypnosis.  My GM says he's noticed a shift and change in me. I know it's the Manifesting part of Thomas' coaching and hypnosis. The porn urges have diminished substantially.  A year investment that's actually producing results already that I want.  Bro, this is freakin awesome and my wife agrees. Who knows what the next 9 months will produce."  - Jerun


" I wanted to share my voice.  I recently started the program. What led me here was my wife and family. More of an ultimatum! One of my survivor issues revolved around dysfunctional coping mechanisms for dealing with the sexual abuse. Pornography!  In therapy we didn't address the remaining issues. Another survivor told me about Safe Place.  Coach T already had a program ready to go. With the use of coaching, hypnosis, and learning how to "wrench" a habit, I'm starting to overcome. I'm learning about abuse, brain trauma, and sexual abuse that's making this battle easier.  It's just different when the person working with you has experienced sexual abuse also, plus had to overcome survivor issues and dysfunctions also

-  Darren


" I started with the first workshop. Totally sold.  I began the coaching program. It felt so comfortable being able to share details with someone who actually empathetically related to being a sexually abused man. Understanding my trauma type and trauma leveling greatly helped me overcome some nagging questions and lifelong challenges."  - Rashad

Ready to share your experience and journey


As I travel conducting workshops, conferences or working 1:1 with male survivor clients, I run into men who want to share their story, like Tim, to encourage other survivors. If that's you, then simply send an email and let's connect and see if its a good opportunity.  If it works and I"m traveling to your area to work with a client or conduct a workshop, we can conduct video shoot.  When we share our stories we realize we are not alone. 

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