Fisherman on Fishing Boat
Men Healing Trauma

Learning to live life to its fullest

The Experience

A Unique Journey

Thomas Edward (TBone)  CPC, ELI-MP, MNH, ACC, CHt

I once was called the king of trauma, childhood sexual abuse history is filled with violations of trust, abuse, torture and emotional pain. From age 6-15, I was sexually abused.

About nine perpetrators/abuser are part of my abuse history. That's just the beginning. I often share that journey during the coaching program with participants and during my speaking engagements. People ask, "How is that you have that big smile after all of that?"

As I started my healing journey years ago, during the stone age, there was not much help or understanding of sexual abuse, especially for men it was unheard.


I remember reflecting intuitively feeling and thinking, " You have to do more with this trauma stuff than just sit around and talk  about it each week. It's locked in my body and somehow I've been physiologically altered and changed." Guess what the scince and research now shows!

During my years in Seattle, I soaked up knowledge from graduate study of psychology and counseling, Bastyr herbal medicine, energetics, studied, kinesiology, cognitive thinking, sound frequency (which the Shaolin monks had introduced me to at the temple) leadership development.

I became a licensed massage therapist focused on male trauma touch therapy, became certified strengths-based solution coach, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution. certified hypnotherapist. I am a renaissance person. Yes, I enjoy learning new things especially that promote helping my clients get accelerated results.

All these represented multifaceted practices that accelerated my healing. All this while navigating a corporate career at Microsoft & Amazon coaching and training leaders.

Today I share those strategies, applications, ideas, thoughts, and techniques via support workshops, masterclasses, books, conference, and coaching to help male survivors on their healing journey. For me it also about making an impact on lives.  In 2011,  I was invited to Penn State area to help male survivors in the aftermath of the Jerry Sandusky revelation and convictions.

My passion? I developed this coaching program  for those survivors that are tired of prolonging healing, want results, understand importance of growth and development, and want serious 1:1 mentoring support accelerating their

I'm a certified executive professional coach, certified hypnotherapist, licensed trauma touch therapist, who loves neuroscience, and who also
is a male survivor

I understand how any type of unresolved trauma, asteroid or paper cut size from past or current life experiences can block us, creating limiting beliefs, and distortions that keep us from living life to it's fullest, because I have lived it.

I've been helping male survivors for over 20 years, that's experience. 

I'm here for you if you're tired of being part of a statistic, 1 in 6.  If you want to beat the odds and transform, build the dreams you desire, and if you want to get real results. No more just sitting around talking about it. 

Unpack! Release! the past or current  trauma without all the drama.




"Thomas this coaching program is so rich. You can tell that your lifetime of working with survivors influenced it.  I've worked with a therapist prior.  When I started your course with the weekly coaching, strategies and the breadth or your neuroscience knowledge in helping to understand what's occurring in the brain as we face various challenges is so needed.  I felt cheated by my therapist and wish I would have known about you earlier.  I will be moving on the Managing and Manifest parts of this journey.  -

Jimmy , 42


Support Group

I been working with a client for 1.5 month to unpack his trauma and build confidence.  Last week he mustered the courage to finally talk to the VP. Results, he was promoted and given a raise. Yes, he's transforming! That's what this is about.